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god I love practicing in a state where adultery has no damn association with how a divorce is handled. i emphasize for my clients who have experienced it but it just shouldn't be taken into account for dividing up the assets as a matter of law.

Yeah I think it is bad but also like, a bad thing a lot of people do that has by nature an impact restricted to only so many people andcof I have to imagine a lot of people thought it was worse than more objectively harmful behaviors!

Eh, I think there's a difference between finding something morally unacceptable* and wanting it banned. I'm very much of the "Go now, and sin no more" view and not the "stone the adulterer/ess" view. *Which IMO adultery is in the vast majority of cases.

Just another example of why the 250th celebrations and all the signs with ‘Freedom!’ on them felt more aspirational than actualized. Meaningful personal freedom is not really all that popular.

Mmmmm if only we had a way to like, make decisions about standards of behavior, collectively, as a society?? Then we could just decide to not live like this anymore Alas, it can't be done

We give Orwell rather a lot of credit but this is the part, social snitching included, that he completely nailed

Like I know @hurricanexyz.bsky.social has specific takes on cheating and I personally think it is a violation but like, it is a violation of one person to another person if they had an understanding, not of one person to everyone else on the planet.

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