I think in addition to sexism it’s revealing the bootlicking soul of Americans. We’re supposed to kiss the feet of our betters who deign to take notice of our work. How dare she be so ungrateful etc. Plus the usual “if you dislike anything popular you’re mean” attitude of our infantilized culture
It’s also just tiring, because they don’t understand how much “cotton eyed joe” was played everywhere you went. like yeah that’s a vibe that can’t AND SHOULDNT be recreated