Oof. I can smell the massive personal trauma from here. That's beyond insecurity, and more like living in perpetual fear. He needs so much therapy. He doesn't have to stop BJJ to start therapy, either. He has none of the peace he should feel from the strength he claims to control.
Dan of the YearHe will never understand that being "the fat guy from Superbad" is infinitely better than being "the martial arts chud nobody likes"