When someone said "okay then I will count to 3 and then you can choose or I can choose for you" in front of me for the first time, it was like God had reached done from the heavens and handed me a cheat code
RochelleI was sure that if my kids argued with me about things, I'd just give them two choices I'm already okay with and let them pick from those two choices to give them a feeling of control over the situation. Easy. I failed to consider what to do when they say no to both choices.