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Abusing fellow disabled folx and saying “well I’m autistic lol” isn’t doing the work you think it’s doing.

Allyship isn't a feeling. It's a practice. Most advice given to the families of autistic adults doesn't work - because it was never built by autistic people. Autistic-led, for partners, parents, colleagues who want to support us. www.theautisticcoach.com/allies-autis...

Most rooms ask you to lead with one identity and leave the rest at the door. This one doesn't. Free monthly circle for autistic trans, nonbinary, and autigender adults - no translating, no picking a lane. www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discu...

The tragedy of ABA isn’t only what it does to autistic children. It’s what it teaches the adults around them. That distress is acceptable if it produces compliance. That looking normal matters more than feeling safe. That an autistic body belongs to everyone except the autistic person.

Peer support coaching from someone who isn’t trying to change you. theautisticcoach.com

Most autism support teaches you to survive a world that wasn't built for you. My workshop asks a different question - what happens when you stop fitting yourself to a life that doesn't work, and start building one that does? www.theautisticcoach.com/newly-diagno...

I reject the idea that autistic people exist to become employable, independent or socially acceptable. Those things may matter (though I’m unconvinced). But they aren’t the measure of a human life. The measure of a human life is whether we get to belong without abandoning ourselves.

I want to be a Toys R Us kid

Come connect with others who are experiencing autistic burnout. My free discussion & support group is open to all autistic adults. www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discu...

Free Autism Discussion & Affirmation Circles | Autistic Support Group Online | Free Support Group for Autistic Adults — The Autistic CoachThe Autistic Coach hosts free online discussion circles for autistic and AuDHD adults worldwide. Led by an autistic coach, these virtual spaces provide connection, reflection, and open conversation on masking, burnout, needs, and boundaries. Inclusive, neuro-affirming, and community-focused, the cirwww.theautisticcoach.com

Not a group for parents of autistic kids. A group for autistic people who ahve kids, doing it without a script anyone wrote for us. Free monthly circle on zoom. Come have a space for you. www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discu...

I don’t believe autistic liberation begins when society accepts us. It begins when autistic people stop seeing ourselves as lifelong self-improvement projects. That’s exactly what industries built around “fixing” us don’t want.

You've spent your career holding space for everyone else. Autistic doctors, nurses, therapists, clergy, coaches - trained to support others, rarely given space to be supported themselves. That's what I'm here for - supporting my peers theautisticcoach.com/

The Autistic Coach | Autistic Life Coach | Autistic Peer Support CoachThe Autistic Coach provides specialized life coaching for autistic individuals, focusing on personal growth and career advancement. In the UK, we support clients through Access to Work and employer collaborations to help you achieve your professional and personal goals. We provide peer-support autistheautisticcoach.com

We're told our inner lives are either too literal for mysticism or too rigid for faith. Neither's true. Free circle for what autistic spiritual experience actually looks like — whatever tradition, practice, or none, you bring. www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discu...

ABA isn’t just abusive. It’s an industry. An industry built on the assumption that autistic people are products to be improved, corrected and made more acceptable. Our bodies become PE asshole’s business model for printing cash. That should disturb any decent human being.

Life is nuanced. Life is complicated. Life is ugly. Life is beautiful.

Masking and religious performance ask for the same thing - look like you belong, don't ask why it's hard. This free circle's for autistic Jews to talk about that overlap without explaining either half of it. We meet 3x a month - come join us. www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discu...

Something I’ve learnt after years of coaching autistic folx is that almost nobody comes to me because they don’t know enough about autism. They come because knowledge hasn’t become permission. You can understand sensory overload perfectly. And still feel guilty every time you make a boundary.

The autistic community talks a lot about boundaries. We talk much less about grief. Every boundary contains grief. The friendship you couldn’t keep. The family who preferred the masked version of you. The career that only loved your productivity. We lose entire futures.

You're not bad at relationships. You've just been measured against a script that was never written for you. Join me for a 2-hour virtual seminar on autistic relationships: love languages, boundaries, unmasking with the people closest to you - plus Q&A. www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-educa...

AuDHD brains don't run on neurotypical energy rules - and most advice assumes you're fighting one system, not two. 6 weeks on energy, inertia, masking, and burnout, built by someone who lives it, not someone who read about it. www.theautisticcoach.com/audhd-group-...