Unfortunately a lot of concepts that were originally used to talk about abuse have been coopted in general language and taken outside their intended contexts to the overall detriment of any wider social discourse
Spice8RackAphorisms meant to rekindle autonomy in/after bad relationships: - "You don't owe [them] anything." - "You shouldn't need to change to suit [them]." etc. Becoming common matras is a symptom of a thankless social fabric. It is good to give where you're able & to examine if you need still to grow 💜