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Talking about sex:

Eros is life energy. The creative force. The juju that makes us feel alive. We grow up taught to fear what our bodies want, but making friends with desire is part of making friends with the body itself.

What better way to prove you’d never be caught crying than by taking a bit of what you dish out? Predictably homoerotic hijinks ensue, right up until the ringleader decides to test her mischievous underlings’ new theory for herself.

Talking about sex:

My educational YouTube channel about kink, safety, consent and the law was deleted without appeal. That’s what happens when platforms decide talking about sex is inherently suspect: we lose vocabulary, resources and places to find each other.

Talking about sex:

Between Government regulation, corporate prudishness and social norms, honest conversations about desire get squeezed out of public view. Sex education, body-positive content, sex worker organising - all erased in the name of being family friendly.

Talking about sex:

You know why I keep putting myself through the hard work of writing about my most fucked-up fantasies? Because if we can’t talk about erotic desire, we can’t negotiate consent. Talking about sex is essential to harm prevention and collective healing.

Musings on the unexpected gifts of freedom:

You don’t need permission to do the thing you’ve been wanting to do for years, but you have mine anyway! Book the retreat. Take the space. Let yourself want something beyond being needed. You might come home more in love with the life you already have.

Musings on the unexpected gifts of freedom:

One of the greatest gifts of freedom is that it lets you feel what you actually want. When we experience autonomy and give ourselves variety, it replenishes us and reconnects us with our desire for the things we already have.

A new endeavour, years in the waiting:

I’m birthing a book about unspeakable things in a world that wants me to keep quiet. With it has come a podcast where the stories get told in full, out loud, in real time, as I get ready to be more visible than I’ve ever been before. It’s a ride, and I’m here for every moment.