That's because our country is ugly and horrible and bigoted and has been since its founding (Indigenous treatment, slavery, Jim Crow I, assassinations, etc)
Isn't there a statistic somewhere of how many gay (men) joined the Nazi party? Sorry Graham's life was a needless tragedy of Shakespearean proportions.
Seriously, people. As they may still say in the UK, you'll have to "go private", run GoFundMes AND DO EXACTLY THAT because we ***may*** never get our country back. Also if there is an occurrence of a 10 letter word beginning with R, we're going to need all the medics we can get.