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I think this touches on my uncomfortability. I often imagine, in many various ways, what if I had a billion dollars? in what ways would I fix society? some of it ends up being white saviour stuff just because I'm trying to just push a button to instantly fix something. I don't wanna be a narcissist

its fucking narcissism white ppl and men its narcissism

many times it's important to listen when people more attuned to the actual impact of the issues speak on their experience. I'm using my white voice to deconstruct my own internal feelings in the hopes of inspiring others to deconstruct their own unconscious bigotry. I love you all.

that's why it's important to actually investigate what you feel and why, so you can deconstruct it and learn new things. Natou is such a wealth of perspective, they truly give so much to the world. white narcissism is a better, more accurate way to discuss it. and that very feeling gnaws at me

I need to examine why I instinctually feel uncomfortable with the term white narcissism. it feels kind of like rules are changing, like I've been good for a while and now there's a new standard I don't meet. it's frustrating in a way. that's white narcissism. my reaction. I feel infallible.

as a white person, I've used the term "white supremacy" for a long time to describe the racist societal structure and individual people. the phrase "white narcissism" has somewhat recently come into popularity and it makes me uncomfortable. do you feel the same way, fellow whites?

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everywhere I go, I'm still right there.

okay, I've entertained this long enough, you're so bad faith and disingenuous, you're a pathetic fucking loser, you need to learn how to read if you're going to communicate in text. leave me the fuck alone with this boring waste of time fucking bullshit.

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Trans men can get pregnant. non binary people can get pregnant, intersex people can get pregnant. two women can get pregnant. a man and a woman are not needed.

I have explained it ad nauseum. you demanded repeatedly that I answer the question "can you create a pregnancy without sperm?" which was unrelated to my argument entirely. had nothing to do with it. but you said "answer my question or go away" so I answered it. in that sense YOU brought it up

me: can men get pregnant? you: how many virgin births have there been? me: can only one man and one woman create a pregnancy? you: give me an exact number of virgin births in the world that's why you didn't include trans men. I asked you directly and you refused to acknowledge them.

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okay Bob, thanks for your opinion that I need to be calm or else I'm whining, but men can say whatever they want and it's justified because I'm whining. I'll take that to heart.

I'm very calmly explaining myself while you hurl insults at me like a child.

wow, you finally made a fucking argument, I'm proud of you. you can argue that's coming in hot, I said "use your brain" because to me it's so blatantly obvious. I'm sorry if that hurt your feelings, I genuinely didn't think it would. I adjusted my attitude going forward from there. I'm sorry.

what the fuck are you talking about? he made a claim, I said "do you stand by this claim?" and he spent 2 hours having a hissy fit cause I gave him gentle feedback

first of all, I DIDN'T refer to all men. that's your inability to parse the language. second you said "all pregnancies include one man and one woman" which is factually incorrect. trans women and cis women can have a child together. that's a pregnancy with two women and no men.