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awwww I think we have very similar tastes! for what it's worth, my favorite cocktail is an Attention, but the Aviation is also very good <3

No, I was just curious and wanted to experiment. It's my favorite (non-absinthe) cocktail when made with gin (although I do modify the classic recipe a bit)

hmmm it keeps getting worse

no, I just have Luxardo

I made an aviation with vodka instead of gin just to see and the results are in: no like I'm still gonna drink it but no absolutely not

I was both endorsing that people should read "Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence" while also situating it within its context and moment, not saying that the essay itself involves any of that

I agree with you there, I'm just taking exception to excusing men broadly from perpetuating it

yes, just also be aware that Adrienne Rich was close to and supported colossal transphobe Janice Raymond and counseled her on writing "The Transsexual Empire"

every woman I quoted above was talking about men who made them feel insecure about their bodies and I reject the idea that men are largely innocent and it's actually mostly women's fault

y'all don't need to "not all men" posts about men criticizing women's bodies 🙃

well, we'll get her too

It's not different for you 💜

idk it does say "USDA steak" no grade or anything, and it doesn't say "beef" anywhere, but the USDA recognizes it as steak!

"my thighs are too big" "don't you hate my tummy" "I wish my ass was more toned" I want to carve our initials in the bark of every man who ever hurt you

I'll go for three: AFI Bad Religion The Cure

every time I post about women's beauty standards, some guy pops up to tell me that men prefer curvy women and therefore the beauty standards aren't due to men so let me make this really easy: shut the fuck up, nobody cares :)

hey friends can we help misty out? 💕

these women aren't comparing themselves to "rail thin, underfed fashion models", and actually often *are* comparing themselves to porn stars, and I don't think you know enough to talk about this if you think the fashion industry isn't patriarchal

"actually men like curvy women" certainly doesn't dispel the damage done by men and male-focused beauty standards to women all of these women specifically got criticized by men for their appearance and internalized it