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this is a similar emotion to the way george rr martin tells you everything either happened within the last 300 years or in the unknowable mists of ancient time and you’re like ok so these may be knights in armor but you sir are from the united states of america

sometimes john tolkien will talk about noxious choking fumes and interminable sieges and the bodies of dead soldiers floating in pools of fetid water and fields turned into scarred wastelands and you’re like ok so these may be knights in shining armor but you sir survived the somme

oh interesting! i’m vindicated, then. it did not seem unlikely to me that there was rpf about that so it’s good to know that instinct was correct

LMFAO i’m on your side here I feel like that’s understandable

this is a recurrent problem with me. real ones will remember a few years ago when i found out that disco elysium and neon genesis evangelion are very different things

i’m going to be honest, not having seen either, i didn’t really know top gear and top gun were different things until like a year or two ago so when people were talking about top gun yaoi all this time i was just like damn i guess those old british guys who make cars together are gay

how it feels to go back to posting yaoi immediately after 58 moderately religious uncles follow you because you were talking about lord of the rings:

lmfaoooooo yes sarah michelle gellar, freddie prinze jr., and matthew lillard 😭

the live action scooby doo movies from the early 2000s are not good but casting a scooby doo movie where the gang are all played by actors previously known for being in slashers is one of the funniest things anyone has ever done

instead of characters who are sort of lured by the danger of a desire they know they should not have you have incest and incestuous rape where neither victim nor aggressor really understands this as a harm and frequently those roles become blurred or characters are both at once

i think what’s interesting about the targaryen incest is that it’s a rare fictional incest that is compelling not because it is taboo but rather because the characters are incapable of understanding that this is a transgression and the plural dynamics of sexual abuse that create that

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🤝 i dont know if it was the very first but definitely early on

elladan and elrohir aren’t in pj’s movies because he was afraid of the power of the dionysian madness that even remotely sexyman elf twins on screen would’ve unleashed on society

(i can also totally get that if mainstream romance novel dynamics are really not your cup of tea, these usually more fandom specific niches may feel at least more appetizing than that even if they have their problems)

🤝 all good! hope the above didn’t come across meanly or anything, i just kind of felt like we were talking past each other

like i don’t intend the assertion here to be that mainstream erotica is better? it’s just kind of a comment on why i think fandom het feels bland because of its approach

i don’t me to be rude here but i think you’re kind of arguing with stuff this post doesn’t actually say. i am not telling anybody what dynamics to explore in their erotica, i’m saying that if you want a healthy dynamic you have to write a healthy dynamic instead of trying to craft un-abusable people

i am all for shipping a big woman with a little man, i just demand that you be normal about people’s bodies as part of it

the ways people go about it are often revealing, too. the woman is bigger than the man now so as to make sure she’s not a victim of him, but why does her body mean that to you? viewing a tall/broad/fat woman as aggressive and essentially abuse proof is congruent with about every bigotry you can name