Not just ok, it’s essential. It’s the most extreme version of “I’m not racist I have a black friend but that blacks live ipso facto where crime is” Or “I’m not anti Semitic but there are Jews pulling strings”. Because it’s “my family and kids don’t get deported because they have secret service”.
Lupita NihongoHe is using his position in one of the highest offices on earth to strive for a world where the only way his kids *may not* be terrorized or brutalized for the color of their skin is if the people he incites towards racial violence daily are aware in advance that they are his kids It’s ok to say it