If you read the woman's side she says the whole thing demotivated her from going to grad school for math. I understand to him it's "realized it was a horrible idea and slowly cut off contact" but it is a real failure to do pastoral care! cooperativeoverlapping.substack.com/p/a-fuller-s...
A Fuller Statement About My Bluesky PostsLet me paint a picture of what it was like to be a woman math major at the University of Chicago circa 2004.cooperativeoverlapping.substack.com