so much of this is also related to @starshine.bsky.social's thesis about how personality/following-based social media is the core wrong and we should just have Better Reddit iirc
mrsomertondogpiles happen across just about every single social media site because many of their most essential features- notifications, DM's, comments, quotes- which are meant to bring people together- can just as easily be used to throw wave after wave of insults at them.