this is so stupid. i was more uninhibited when i thought i was cis and i'd just wear the weirdest dress i could find at the thrift store and asymmetrical eyeliner and i'd get assumed nonbinary by strangers anyway
3 or 4 ratsi know i just need to stop overthinking gender presentation but trying to theorycraft a nonbinary outfit is difficult when "outfit of mostly mens/gender neutral items + 1 'feminine' item" is such a common women's outfit formula