As a firm believer that you need to explain everything gender related to cis people like they're babies
Timmy is a starving kid with 3 apples, Tommy is a healthy kid with 1,000 apples
It's ok for Timmy to take some of Tommy's apples, he already has so many but Tommy shouldn't take Timmy's apples
"this is like saying kris is male/female" literally no its not. you think this is a gotcha so bad because you get irrationally upset at a trans person's hc for ralsei. kris is already under the trans umbrella.