As someone who coaches youth girls sports for a living, amateur and especially youth sports is one of the most important and sacred things in this world, but no individual sport or performance matters AT ALL. It only matters because of who you become while playing, and who you let play with you.
Marisa Kabasthe obsession with trans women in sports is, apart from the abject bigotry, a symptom of how we take amateur sports participation way too seriously in this country.